02Logo WFAN 1010WINS WCBS tiny WLNYLogo

News

Newburgh Minivan Mom’s Facebook Posting: ‘Forgive Me Please’

View Comments
Lashanda Armstrong (credit: CBS 2)

Lashanda Armstrong (credit: CBS 2)

Kathryn-Brown

Reporting Kathryn Brown

NEWBURGH, N.Y. (CBS 2) — The mother who drowned herself and her three children left a chilling goodbye on Facebook.

Just minutes before LaShanda Armstrong drove her minivan into the Hudson River, she posted a final message – but no one knew what she would do next, reports CBS 2’s Lou Young.

LaShanda Armstrong’s mother said the last words she heard her daughter speak were an apology for her dark decision.

“She said she was sorry,” Datrice Armstrong said.

1010 WINS’ Steve Sandberg reports: Family Speaks Out


“I’m so sorry everyone forgive me please for what I’m gonna do…. This Is It!!!!” the message, posted on Armstrong’s Facebook page at 7:13 p.m. Tuesday from a BlackBerry, said.

 Newburgh Minivan Moms Facebook Posting: Forgive Me Please

L-R Laianna and Lance Pierre Armstrong were killed when their mother Lashandra Armstrong drove her minivan into the Hudson River (credit: AP Photo/Youn and Unique Christian Child Care Center)

Less than an hour later, Armstrong drove the minivan, loaded with her four children, into the river.

Relatives of Armstrong said she was suffering from paranoia right before the tragedy, CBS 2′s Kathryn Brown reports.

Datrice Armstrong, LaShanda’s mother, spoke exclusively with CBS 2.

“I’m still hurting. I will be forever hurting for the rest of my life,” she said.

Police said Armstrong loaded her four children into the family minivan Tuesday night and intentionally drove it into the Hudson River. She drowned, along with her 11-month-old daughter Laianna and two of her sons, 5-year-old Lance and 2-year-old Landon.

“I can’t hear nothing no more from them. I can’t see them no more. I can’t hold them no more. I can’t do none of that,” said Datrice.

The lone survivor, 10-year-old LaShaun, was also in the van but was able to escape through a window. He swam to shore and flagged down a passing car, giving the driver a chilling account of what happened.

“Before she went into the water, she managed to get into the backseat and held all the kids at once and said, ‘If we’re going to die, we’re going to die together’,” said Good Samaritan Meave Ryan.

On Thursday, the 10-year-old went to play as his family tried to keep his mind off the utter horror of Tuesday night.

Little LaShaun wonders why he survived, and what could have been, reports CBS 2′s Sean Hennessey.

“He’s doing very good, but he’s mentioned it…he will never forget the incident, what happened,” LaShanda’s grandmother, Pearl Posey, said. “He wishes that he could have told his brothers how to swim.”

Newburgh police said Armstrong was distraught over rumors her boyfriend had been cheating on her. Thursday morning, her sister said she had been acting strange and paranoid over the past few weeks.

“She was talking to me about how she felt someone was watching her, she felt like there was pages of her diary missing the lights in her house were flickering on and off,” sister Darice Armstrong said.

Wednesday night, family and friends lit candles and laid stuffed animals at the scene. Armstrong’s mother broke down.

“Question is we’ll never know or understand why, but all I’m just saying is just pray with us while we go through this difficult time,” Datrice said.

Family members were not only trying to cope with the tragedy, they were also in the midst of planning four funerals. They asked that any donations be made to First Baptist Church in Spring Valley.

View Comments
  • keep praYING

    unfortunately it took this heart wrenching tragedy to occur for the family and hopefully this will bring about exposure to other families when they see any out of the ordinary to help their loved one,it could have possibly been prevented.

  • KEEP PRAYING

    i’m drenched in tears ,i feel so terrible that this has happened .those poor kids are so innocent.the stupid devil is always busy in innocent people minds.my heart feel for the ten year old when he said he should have told how to swim ,so so sad mein,i dont want to pass any judgement ,Ill be praying

  • dgt5855

    There was a lot more going on in this poor, wretched, soul’s life than her man cheating on her. Millions of women have had men cheat on them and they don’t go out and kill their children. Perhaps she was just overwhelmed with the facets of her life just being too much for her. We can only guess and will never know, but it is beyond sad that the children had no one to fend for them.

  • J-WARRIOR

    ANGER AND SADNESS,,,FOR THOSE CHILDREN,,ARE THE FLOWER’S OF THE EARTH,,,I JUST CAN’T AND DON’T CARE TO UNDERSTAND WHY…SHE TOOK THE CHILDREN WITH HER…!!! TO SAY CHEATING!!! NO WAY!!! SHE ,,,CHEATED,,THOSE CHILDREN OUT OF LIFE!!

  • guest

    I kiss and hug my 4 children every day and when I read stories like this one I kiss and hug them even more.

    This woman must have been in a desperate situation to do this. She was so young and raising 4 kids takes a lot of patience. May all of them rest in peace and may the Lord forgive her actions so that she can be in heaven with her angels.

  • doc

    nyc. mental illness is very difficult to admit to oneself and treat. Not making excuses for her, but hopelessness, no skill, no education, poor, at 15 a child having child. At 25, the responsibily of caring for 4 young kids. This can
    really break you. I just hope that the surviving kid can get the kid of social
    and family help that he will need.

  • butter

    For all of the people that saying nasty about this lady, pls let it been known love hurt. her man was cheating with the next neighbor. love hurt all of us one way or another. love is a powerful word. love hurt.

    • AB

      What does that have to do with the children???! Did her children cheat with the next door neighbor. people are who they are but we have choices and she chose to stay and chose to kill her children. Thats the bottom line. HER CHOICE

  • Trishe

    RIP.

  • toarn bk

    My heart really goes out to those inocent Kids this woman was very selfish she knew what she was doing, sense enough to take those Kids with her why not go alone what kind of a mother does such hurriable thing now that ten year old is left with out. His siblings god knows he will be tramatized.

  • Sun Raness

    I will not criticize the mother for we do not know exactly what happened or where she was mentally. However the daycare worker said she looked strange and talked strangely that day. Being of a different mindset I will assume that another entity took control of her (negative deadly spirit daemon spirit) and she and it was at a point of no return. Most of us do not realize we are operating with these spirit beings inside of us and born with it too, therefore some of us do not know how to put these spirit beings in check. It is unfortunate but nothing that happens is an accident it was meant to be. The best we can do is try our best to operate in the positive and when that negative being rise up hopefully we can put it back in check.
    Peace, harmony, and true care for all.

    • AB

      She had a choice. Even evil spirits bow to the Lord and no we are not born with evil spirits. You have to meet a condition i.e. studying witchcraft, black magic, abominations etc. to have one enter you. Read your bible if your going to share.

      • Sun Raness

        Not true we are all born with a spirit in us, whether negative or positive. No thank you as far as the bible is concern being it is corrupt and has been altered a few times in my lifetime. One other point if you study the genealogy of the bible, the locations, specific people who that book was relating to then pure knowledge would tell you it wasn’t for everyone.

  • Sterling Archer

    I thought that people who commit suicide aren’t allow to have a funeral?

  • Danny DD

    It is a great tragic. We have so many couples are not comitted to marriage vow and building family together. They were to selfish to look for benefit of their own and forgot the partners and the kids, the biological products of their short romance. Unfortunately, leaving behing the partners with tremedous burdens resulting in unstable personality. What happened to Armstrongs done have done! I hope this tragic event reflect how much we should value our lifetime partners and family, that we may have overlooked.. My Prayers are with the Armstrong family!! And May God Guide The Lost Ones!

  • Caligrl

    R.I.P. To the innocent kids. But the mom doesn’t deserve any sympathy from anyone. Where was the so called family at when she was hearing things? Now the grandmother is crying saying she won’t be able to hold them or see them. They would still be here if someone reached out to her when she needed it.

  • June

    It’s so unfortunate that this mother did not value the life of her children. I lost a child to leukemia so hearing about someone who elected to take their children’s lives is someone who doesn’t know how lucky they are to have 4 healthy children.
    JAM

  • the

    I just dont understand what could have drawn somebody to do this horrible thing. iMy heart goes out to the children. I can imagine what they have thought while they were drowning. Never can understand why a mother would murder her helpless children.

  • Soap

    I am not religious but if there is a hell, this is it !

  • Alan

    What a jerk Couldn’t go alone had to take the children with her. yeah you really showed us

  • nathan

    Enough sensationalizing every juicy tidbit of this horrific tragedy. No wonder everyone hates the media.

    • badman

      SECOND THAT

      CBS is just ACHING to have people post vicious stuff about this woman

  • Nancy Wall-Clarke

    This is so sad. It wouldn’t surprise me if she had post partum depression. Maybe doctors should talk more to family members as well as the mom before and after pregnancy about how to recognize this illness so that treatment can be given before such a terrible tragedy takes place.

    • Tasha

      Recognition for postpartum depression has come a long way. I work in a place that is a huge advocate in giving moms the most information possible on postpartum depression.I do not fault this mother for what she did. Her mental state was altered by postpartum depression that was left untreated and unfortunately turned into postpartum psychosis or she had a mental illness that went untreated. Until anyone walks in those shoes we cannot judge her for causing this unspeakable tragedy.

      • AB

        Which is it? Is it postpartum or is it her cheating spouse???? Well, the apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree if her mother had a conversation with her and couldn’t be bothered enough to go directly to her or say something to her if she sounded strange on the telephone 30 minutes before she did this thing. Oh don’t forget that she was acting strange two weeks prior. So she had enough time to pinch herslef out of it and her mother had enough time to slap the SH*& out of her.

        She killed her kids!!!! Thats it!

  • Kevin

    this is the saddest thing i have ever heard in my 57 years on this earth.

    • John Adams

      “Kevin

      this is the saddest thing i have ever heard in my 57 years on this earth”

      Sadder than the Viet Nam war?

      • Kevin

        I lost 3 close buds in Vietnam, Yes, this is the saddest thing
        Who are you to ask, pray tell?

  • Beatrice Atim

    May the souls of the innocent kids R.I.P.

  • Jojo

    The family is trying to deal with a tragic loss. I guess it makes them feel better to think that she was mentally ill then to think she was a cold hearted woman who chose to take her life and her childrens lives. Her older son was lucky to have the faculties to pull the window down and swim to shore to try and get help. I agree with NYC. If he family new she was mental, why did they not get her help?

  • Fallingleaves2

    Good Question!!!!!

  • The Real Devenio

    Like what NYC? You ever heard a friend say something totally off the wall? What did you do about it? Easy to judge after the fact there tuffy.

  • nyc

    Of course she was mentally unstable ! If her family noticed, why didn’t they do anything about it !

    • AB

      OH KAY!!!! I’m glad I am not theonly one looking past all of these excuses.

1 2
blog comments powered by Disqus
Listen Live!

Latest News Video