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Teen Girl Sharing Nude Photo Leads To Sexting Scandal In Wyckoff

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WYCKOFF, N.J. (CBSNewYork) — A Bergen County middle school is at the center of a sexting scandal after a teenage girl’s explicit photos spread from cell phone to cell phone.

Virtually all teens text countless times a day, but at Wyckoff’s Eisenhower Middle School, a 13-year-old girl was sexting full nude photographs of herself.

She sent them via cell phone to two teen boys, who sent them to a few friends, who sent them to more friends, and so on.

“I was kind of appalled that a quiet girl like this would do such a thing,” student Kevin Winiarski told CBS 2′s Sean Hennessey.

Few are aware of the serious nature of the situation.

“Having photographs of this nature, of a 13-year old, is in fact a criminal offense. It’s the distribution of or the possession of child pornography,” Wyckoff Police Chief Benjamin Fox said.

Administrators sent letters and emails to parents, who were stunned.

“It’s an unfortunate reality of today’s society,” parent Brian Winiarski said.

“Too many opportunities for students, and for young people to get themselves into trouble that they didn’t intend,” Wyckoff School Superintendent Rich Kuder said.

These students may have caught a break. Instead of arrests, police are offering amnesty to delete the nude photo.

“Get rid of it because if you get caught with it after Thursday morning, we will arrest and charge you with possession of child pornography,” Fox said.

The incident is expected to spur parents to get more involved with what their child is sending and receiving via cell phone.

The school hopes what happened is a lesson to all students that a careless use of today’s technology carries inherent dangers with long-ranging consequences.

Please offer your thoughts in the comments section below.



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  • Hal

    A 13 yr old does not need a cell phone, first problem, second problem parents who get them for them or let have. and third why do they allow cell phone in school? No wonder we have such a bunch of dummies running the country, instead of go to school to learn, they are playing on phones or what ever they want. Schools are only low class babysitters for the parents now-a-days it would seem. Why does anyone under the age of 16 or 17 even need a cell phone….there is no good reason at all. Yes I have a cell phone but also lots older than teen years, Makes you wonder how we every lived without them, years ago??? and we did just fine. Too bad cell phone jamming systems could not be installed in all schools under college level…PARENTS TRY BEING PARENTS FOR A CHANGE…..bottom line it is your fault

    • Technokat

      “No wonder we have such a bunch of dummies running the country, instead of go to school to learn, they are playing on phones or what ever they want.” Uh, no. Kids are actually there to learn and many do–don’t judge a whole system by a few moronic people. Navy Seals training has a 20% graduation rate–with your logic, the institution that trains them is a major failure. I know it’s apples and oranges, but then again so is every other argument against the public schools. There are too many variables at play to make blanket judgements about education.

    • Amber

      There’s one problem with this – when I was in school we had pay phones, about 4 of them in places like outside the cafeteria etc. Try finding a pay phone now in school or anywhere. So the calls we used to make – I forgot lunch, I need to stay late, band practice ended early can you pick me up – they can’t make those calls. It’s not that we lived without them years ago, we had alternatives.
      Parents should though have their kids be responsible for the phones, don’t get unlimited plans, restrict usage etc. It’s either that or we demand that the phone companies put pay phones back in use (which should happen about the same time pigs fly)

  • badman

    better living through PARENTAL CONTROL…

    technology exists to scan all the image files on a computer and identify those most likely to be potentially “pornographic” – i.e., a lot of flesh tones, specific body parts.

    some mobile carrier is going to strike gold with mobile phone parental control settings that identifies such photos and prevents them from being texted or e-mailed.

    Even easier – how about simply not letting kids e-mail or SMS photos of any kind? kids went for thousands of years without it. it won’t kill them to wait until they’re 18.

  • richard

    they make a device that leaves a cell phone useless would be great in schools

    • nypj

      cell phone signal jammers are ILLEGAL.. so it is not an option.. and it is not like these images are being taken in school, and can easily be distributed after school hours, or via the internet – where many students have internet access in school now..

      while i agree that most students have no need for a cell phone, blocking access during school hours does not address the concerns about sexting.

      students need to be educated about the social and potentially legal consequences of these types of behaviors

      • SteveO

        @nypj, I am not saying you’re wrong, but I know of businesses that use jammers. I bought one myself at a bazaar here in Michigan where I live. They’ve been selling them for years and I use mine when I am at the movies so folks won’t babble on their cell phones. In Ann Arbor during a concert earlier this year, I know that the theatre had one operating because I could not place a call even while I was near the front door. After the concert was over, I was able to place a call anywhere in the building.
        Schools would probably opt for using them if weren’t for the parents not liking it.

      • gaymedia

        Cell phone jammers are legal. But when I was a kid, you weren’t allowed to bring walkmans and electronics to school. they warned people REPEATEDLY and tod parents the otems would be confiscated and locked in the vault until the end of the school year. those devices were practicaly out-dated 9 months later and students and parents HOWLED. But the schools were not fooling back then. they should do the same thing here. AND they should start charging students for this “I’ll show you mine” behavior. NOT just the boys, but the girls should be seriously punished. This is WAY not cool and is a huge cultural problem.

  • nypj

    just a nude photograph of a minor is not necessarily legally defined as pornography.. there has to be lavish exhibition of the genitals or sexual organs or in a manner that would be considered sexual in nature.

    if she just took a nude photo of herself and it does not confirm to the legal definition of pornography the police are just using scare tactics. likely the image would not be classified as pornography, otherwise i am sure that they would have made attempts to prosecute instead of trying to scare these kids with this warning.

    children do need to be supervised and taught the dangers of using technology improperly – many cell phone cameras also provide GPS information on the photos, and if these photos have that information, and they fell into the wrong hands it could be disastrous..

    glad that this instance turned up as just a wake up call to all involved, but to try to sensationalize this by claiming that anyone who received a copy of this image would face child pornography charges is ridiculous

    • LG

      So you can show teenage boobs and it wouldn’t be porn? I mean, as long as they weren’t exhibited “lavishly,” right? I don’t believe that for a second. I don’t know about you, but I wouldn’t want my daughter’s face and bare breasts being distributed for the world to see. But now you are saying that’s not porn unless she’s doing exactly what with them in the photo?

      • nypj

        I think that you may need the laws concerning child pornography if you believe that ANY nude to topless photograph of someone under 18 years old is considered child pornography.

        These laws are in place to punish people who actually produce, distribute, and possess images and videos of children being sexually exploited. They are also carefully crafted as to prevent parents from being convicted for taking nude baby photos.

        In your mind depiction of nudity would be considered pornography. Why are you so ashamed of the human form? There are many artistic displays of nudity, many in museums around the world would you consider all of that pornography also?

        No one on here has seen the images that this girl took (hopefully no one has) so none of us would be able to judge if these were tasteful nudes or pornography.

        To your question of if I would want my daughter, if I had one, to take and post images like this – NO I would not and I would hope that I would raise my children to understand the dangers of such actions on their future. But that does not change the legal definition of pornography

      • nypj

        *many need to read

      • Brian Newton

        You don’t have to believe it for it to be true. Get a damned dictionary – and read it.

      • LG

        To nypj: Read them, and I did attempt to post a response last week, but it didn’t make it to the page—probably too long. :-P

        You are making this a simple case of defining the law without any sense of judgment and interpretation. It’s much more complicated that that, I’m afraid.

        [BTW, I’m not in any way ashamed of the human form. I believe it is to be respected.]

        But if you look at an excerpt of the laws, you will see that these laws are open to interpretation. And with interpretation, we’re talking about judgments as to what is considered explicit and obscene.

        The laws state that full-blown images of genitalia are not pornographic unless something obscene or explicit is being done with said genitalia—an action of sort that either IS sexual or that simulates a sexual act. Therefore, any person in possession of a photograph of an underage person’s genitalia is not in possession of child pornography, as long as there is no explicit or obscene action taking place in said image. I believe this is also your interpretation since you mention that these may be “tasteful” images. Taste is a matter of interpretation and the contextual position of the observer.

      • LG

        (con’t) My interpretation is a little different: An image of underage genitalia is explicit and obscene except in the case of its application for medical use. There seems no other need to see underage genitalia whether engaged in an activity or not.

        How one interprets any situation has much to do with the context in which the observer finds him or herself. A photo of an underage child showing his or her genitalia in their entirety (with nothing else touching said parts) is allowable under these laws. Would you agree if that child were your son/daughter? Or does your sense of judgment change when you’re close to the case?

      • LG

        (con’t) Now to address your comment on art–art, in general, is best approached with a sense of education and discrimination in order to fully appreciate it. That’s not to say that one cannot enjoy art without being educated about art. But to simply pass off a naked body as an art object to justify intent for passing the image around is irresponsible and completely without context. Nudity in art exists to study form and function or to illicit a response (hopefully, an intelligent one) to said form and function. Once you cross the line of intent in so-called art, it ceases to be art anymore. It’s soft porn. The problem here is that you cannot legislate intent any more than you can legislate judgment of what is obscene or explicit. Judgment is interpretation that is left up to the courts. The law gives you guidelines—it isn’t scripture.

      • LG

        Brian Newton–You are making assertions about how “what parents want” dictates what schools do. Just because you believe it doesn’t make it true. Get some damned experience as a school administrator before you spew your comments. :-)

      • nypj

        “The laws state that full-blown images of genitalia are not pornographic unless something obscene or explicit is being done with said genitalia”
        NOT correct – if the main focus of the image is the genitalia or sexual organs, then the image would be considered pornographic… if the image is taken in an unnatural, or provocative pose then it is pornographic..

        if the image is of her just standing there naked, then in all likely hood it is not obscene, or pornographic… if she photographed herself with her legs spread, or bent over then they could be considered pornographic.

        i am not sure why you are so shameful of the human form where you feel that any image depicting nudity is pornography.

        as i stated, i would not want a relative taking or posting photos like this, but that does not change the legal definition of what can and what can not be considered pornography.

        “An image of underage genitalia is explicit and obscene except in the case of its application for medical use”
        1 – i disagree that it is obscene or explicit just because it is an image of someone under some arbitrarily set age – so after a certain age the obscenity just vanishes for you?
        2- who is to determine what a medical use for the image is?
        did your parents never take a photograph of you as a child where you might not have had anything on? or perhaps you of your children if you have any? do you consider that pornography?

        there is a reason why nudity does not equal pornography…

      • nypj

        one more point to make..
        when have you ever known the legal system to not seek prosecution for a crime?

        since they have not attempted to prosecute anyone it is obvious that the images in question would not stand up to the legal definition of child pornography..

      • LG

        To nypj:
        “ ‘The laws state that full-blown images of genitalia are not pornographic unless something obscene or explicit is being done with said genitalia’
        “NOT correct – if the main focus of the image is the genitalia or sexual organs, then the image would be considered pornographic… if the image is taken in an unnatural, or provocative pose then it is pornographic..

        Actually, what you posted is incorrect. The laws state that depiction cannot “lack serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value.” One can assume that if the image has “serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value,” it is not considered pornography. Many photographs depicting medical conditions of genital organs are perfectly permissible for medical (scientific) reasons. See: http://www.missingkids.com/missingkids/servlet/PageServlet?PageId=1504

      • LG

        “if the image is of her just standing there naked, then in all likely hood it is not obscene, or pornographic… if she photographed herself with her legs spread, or bent over then they could be considered pornographic.”
        According to a literal interpretation of the law, you are correct. But what is your interpretation of “just standing there?” Are we going to take into account what expression she has on her face? What if she were just innocently standing there and you could see parts of her that were not intended to be seen? Would that suddenly become pornographic? As I’ve said, this is all open for interpretation in the court system.

        Are citizens allowed to walk about the streets completely naked or would they be stopped by law enforcement for “creating a disturbance” or “public nudity?” I am not ashamed of the human body, as you once again are asserting. I have stated the contrary. Now is society ashamed of the human body? That’s up for debate, but why would there be laws about public nudity if it was not so? Perhaps it’s not a case of shame–there are social structures in a society that one cannot ignore.

      • LG

        Nobody is comparing a middle school female with a naked baby. You cannot legislate intent (however there are some laws that use intent to commit them as their opening), but you also have to be reasonable as to at what age public decency becomes an issue. Certainly, no one is going to arrest a baby for public nudity. Does the law dictate an age for when a person’s nudity becomes “public nudity?”

        “1 – i disagree that it is obscene or explicit just because it is an image of someone under some arbitrarily set age – so after a certain age the obscenity just vanishes for you?” Actually, obscenity is obscenity and pornography is pornography. The law is supposed to protect underage people from being victims of pornography. Your point is not germane to the argument.

        “2- who is to determine what a medical use for the image is?” The medical professionals.

        “did your parents never take a photograph of you as a child where you might not have had anything on? or perhaps you of your children if you have any? do you consider that pornography?
        there is a reason why nudity does not equal pornography…” Yes and you are comparing a middle school female to a baby. At what age do you consider private to be private?

      • LG

        “one more point to make..
when have you ever known the legal system to not seek prosecution for a crime?
        since they have not attempted to prosecute anyone it is obvious that the images in question would not stand up to the legal definition of child pornography..”
        Haven’t you ever heard of cases being settled out of court? Have you ever heard of plea bargains? Just because you haven’t heard of a case brought into court by prosecutors does not mean you know what happened in this case.

      • richard

        she sent them and expected what? PLEASE she knew what she was doing. children arent as dumb as parents want them to be

      • Henry

        In order for pictures to be considered porn the child must be performing some type of sexual or simulated act, otherwise it is just a picture. The courts have ruled on this over-and-over again. Just having pictures of naked children isn’t enough for a charge.

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