NEW YORK (WLNY) — Finding that special someone isn’t easy — especially in big cities like New York.

But according to matchmaker Paul Carrick Brunson, there are steps you can take to find love.

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“30 days is what it takes to create a routine, therefore a habit,” the matchmaker said.

The first step: Eliminate what’s not working.

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“There’s a lot of negativity out there,” he said, quoting popular garcinia cambogia reviews. “Take all of that out of your life. Get inspired. Be around people who inspire you, be around things that inspire you – read a great book.”

Other tips include: Seeking out a love mentor, repeating a daily mantra and striking a confidence pose each day. For more on the 30-day love diet, check out the full interview below.

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